So this is all very sudden but I’ve decided to break up with the guy I was dating. I feel like an awful person, but we weren’t right for each other and think we both knew that. I really care about him, but it’s not gonna work out. I know in my heart that I wasn’t rude about it and that he won’t hold a grudge against me, but I still feel absolutely awful. I probably should feel bad, honestly. We weren’t dating for that long and it was seemingly out of nowhere but I couldn’t do it anymore. I’m such an a..hole.
We broke up..
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, Dec 04 2020 08:42 AM
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Posted 04 December 2020 - 08:42 AM
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Posted 04 December 2020 - 08:51 AM
I’m sorry I’m sure it was hard for you to brake up with him! My PMs are always available
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Posted 04 December 2020 - 09:13 AM
Oh I am so sorry.
Breakups are always hard.
PM's are open <3
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Posted 04 December 2020 - 10:08 AM
sometimes its better to know he isnt the one and move on than to stay with him until leaving him is too painful. i hope you’re doing alrighr
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Posted 04 December 2020 - 10:09 AM
I'm so so sorry, breakups can be very hard. It's good that you were not rude about it, and if you feel like you were not right for eachother it's okay that you broke up with him. My PM's are open <3
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Posted 04 December 2020 - 11:34 AM
i am so sorry! if it makes you feel a bit better my day hasnt been the best either!
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Posted 07 December 2020 - 04:42 PM
If you know it won't work, it's better for the both of you to acknowledge that as soon as possible, rather than wasting a year or two in a relationship that can't progress.
It sucks, and it hurts. But it would hurt more to wait longer.
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Posted 08 December 2020 - 04:29 AM
IM SORRY IM LATE DON'T END ME
It's hard, it feels like a hole has been shot in your heart (from what ive heard ;-;), but, it wasn't met to be. It was good while it lasted but its like a chapter has ended, ya know? If its better for you and him to not be together. Just know it wasn't ment to be and it was good while it lasted
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Posted 08 December 2020 - 05:33 AM
FROOTIES IM SORRY IM LATE DNEWKE
anyway, I'm super sorry, but just know, like ppl ^^ said, its better that you ended things when you knew it wasn't working rather than just staying with him- It would most likely cause more pain and sadness, so just know you did the right thing luv :-)
PM ME IF U NEED ME GIRL ILY <3
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Posted 10 December 2020 - 11:48 PM
It's okay! it's NOT your fault. Knowing it isnt right and moving on is the best solution. You werent even rude about it, so thats a plus!!!
Sorry, breakups are hard. I hope you feel better soon, <3
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Posted 30 July 2021 - 04:26 AM
How do you end a relationship with someone you're dating?
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Posted 18 February 2022 - 03:29 AM
In any relationship personals tri cities wa, your wants and needs should come first. Girls who value and love themselves will attract self-sufficient guys. No, of course, various abusers and tyrants will pay attention to them, but such unhealthy relationships will not be able to exist for a long time. I think these tips are good for any nation
Edited by moosiakdefrogosa, 22 February 2022 - 03:23 AM.
