I just got married 9 months ago. My husband & i just got Toby recently,a sweet little snow white syrian hamster. He's our baby boy. The most annoying thing is...the question "so when are you both going to have a baby?" There will be no human babies for us. Ever. Some people find parenting fulfilling. We are not those people. We will not change our minds. To quote Maleficient "i don't like children."
I completely understand (okay not like actually understand; still a minor lmao, not getting married any time soon) but it's pretty annoying when you're pressured to be a parent or anything. Some people just aren't fit or dislike the thought of parenting, and that's okay. Just because you've gotten marriage doesn't mean you're going to get a baby or anything. (Also saw a Ted Talk of the same topic about this too!) Congratulations on the new addition of Toby, by the way. I can't wait to hear more about him.