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#1 Whitewhiskers

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Posted 17 April 2022 - 01:33 AM

OKAY SO I START OFF THIS WEEK ABOUT TO GET NEW RATS, YAY FOR THE WORLD

BUT THEN THE SHOP IS CLOSED AND EVERY OTHER SHOP DOESNT HAVE THEM!

SO BOO HOO! 

SO THE NEXT DAY I CONTACT A BREEDER, AND THEN MY MOM DECIDES SHE DOESNT WANT TO BUY THEM FROM THAT SPECIFIC SHOP, AND THE BREEDER DOESNT RESPOND

SO MY ONLY OPTION FOR GETTING MY CURRENT RATS FRIENDS SO SHE ISNT LONELY IS A STUPID PET STORE UGHHHHH

SO I GET THEM FROM THE PET STORE AND I BRING THEM HOME AND YKNOW I LOVE THEM

THE NEXT DAY I RUB SOME VANILLA ON THERE BELLIES SINCE I WAS GONNA INTRODUCE THEM TO MY CURRENT RAT- AND MY OTHER ONE GOES ON A FREAKING HOT BURNER- SO I FEWAK OUT AND MOVE HER, FOR SOEM REASON SHE WAS FINE WITH IT? BUT THENNNNN SHE LEAPS OFF THE COUNTER AND RUNS UNDER A <fuzzy teddy-bear>ING HOLE UNDER THE SINK. UGHHHHHHHHHHHHH

SO I GOT A TRAP FROM MY GRANDPA BUT IT DOESNT WORK BC SHES SO SMALL SO I BASICALLY HAD TO SPEND THE ENTIRE DAY NEXT TO THE TRAP BUT SHE WOULDNT COME OUT UNLESS I LEFT. 

AND THENNNNN I WALK IN AND MY ORIGINAL RAT, OREO, IS GONE FROM HER CAGE! SO AFTER SEARCHING IN TEARS, TURNS OUT SHE WAS IN HER CAGE THE WHOLE TIME. OKAY THEN! AND THEN LITERALLY TWO SECONDS AFTER THAT, I FIND TOYBUS DEAD IN HIS CAGE!

 

AND TO TOP IT ALL OFF, TODAY ON MY <fuzzy teddy-bear>ING BIRTHDAY, MY DAD IS LEAVING US!!!! AND ITS ALL MY FAULT TOO!!!

 

SO IM JUST <fuzzy teddy-bear>ING DONE DUDE IM <fuzzy teddy-bear>ING DONE OH MY GOD


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Posted 17 April 2022 - 02:02 AM

All I can say is I am so so sorry. I know that probably won’t bring any comfort, and I would like to say something meaningful but I can’t find the words to express it. But I do know that we are all here for you <33 :hug:
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Posted 17 April 2022 - 03:41 AM

All I can say is I am so so sorry. I know that probably won’t bring any comfort, and I would like to say something meaningful but I can’t find the words to express it. But I do know that we are all here for you <33 :hug:

thank u <3
He said he’s gonna come back in a few weeks so he’s not leaving forever but my parents are extremely close to divorce and probably are going too soon. But hopefully when he comes back from his “trip” he’ll move near us so I can visit him… :(( they said they’re taking a “break” and it’s been a lot of crying and I feel bad.
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Posted 17 April 2022 - 03:49 AM

OKAY SO I START OFF THIS WEEK ABOUT TO GET NEW RATS, YAY FOR THE WORLD
BUT THEN THE SHOP IS CLOSED AND EVERY OTHER SHOP DOESNT HAVE THEM!
SO BOO HOO! 
SO THE NEXT DAY I CONTACT A BREEDER, AND THEN MY MOM DECIDES SHE DOESNT WANT TO BUY THEM FROM THAT SPECIFIC SHOP, AND THE BREEDER DOESNT RESPOND
SO MY ONLY OPTION FOR GETTING MY CURRENT RATS FRIENDS SO SHE ISNT LONELY IS A STUPID PET STORE UGHHHHH
SO I GET THEM FROM THE PET STORE AND I BRING THEM HOME AND YKNOW I LOVE THEM
THE NEXT DAY I RUB SOME VANILLA ON THERE BELLIES SINCE I WAS GONNA INTRODUCE THEM TO MY CURRENT RAT- AND MY OTHER ONE GOES ON A FREAKING HOT BURNER- SO I FEWAK OUT AND MOVE HER, FOR SOEM REASON SHE WAS FINE WITH IT? BUT THENNNNN SHE LEAPS OFF THE COUNTER AND RUNS UNDER A <fuzzy teddy-bear>ING HOLE UNDER THE SINK. UGHHHHHHHHHHHHH
SO I GOT A TRAP FROM MY GRANDPA BUT IT DOESNT WORK BC SHES SO SMALL SO I BASICALLY HAD TO SPEND THE ENTIRE DAY NEXT TO THE TRAP BUT SHE WOULDNT COME OUT UNLESS I LEFT. 
AND THENNNNN I WALK IN AND MY ORIGINAL RAT, OREO, IS GONE FROM HER CAGE! SO AFTER SEARCHING IN TEARS, TURNS OUT SHE WAS IN HER CAGE THE WHOLE TIME. OKAY THEN! AND THEN LITERALLY TWO SECONDS AFTER THAT, I FIND TOYBUS DEAD IN HIS CAGE!
 
AND TO TOP IT ALL OFF, TODAY ON MY <fuzzy teddy-bear>ING BIRTHDAY, MY DAD IS LEAVING US!!!! AND ITS ALL MY FAULT TOO!!!
 
SO IM JUST <fuzzy teddy-bear>ING DONE DUDE IM <fuzzy teddy-bear>ING DONE OH MY GOD

OKAY SO I START OFF THIS WEEK ABOUT TO GET NEW RATS, YAY FOR THE WORLD
BUT THEN THE SHOP IS CLOSED AND EVERY OTHER SHOP DOESNT HAVE THEM!
SO BOO HOO! 
SO THE NEXT DAY I CONTACT A BREEDER, AND THEN MY MOM DECIDES SHE DOESNT WANT TO BUY THEM FROM THAT SPECIFIC SHOP, AND THE BREEDER DOESNT RESPOND
SO MY ONLY OPTION FOR GETTING MY CURRENT RATS FRIENDS SO SHE ISNT LONELY IS A STUPID PET STORE UGHHHHH
SO I GET THEM FROM THE PET STORE AND I BRING THEM HOME AND YKNOW I LOVE THEM
THE NEXT DAY I RUB SOME VANILLA ON THERE BELLIES SINCE I WAS GONNA INTRODUCE THEM TO MY CURRENT RAT- AND MY OTHER ONE GOES ON A FREAKING HOT BURNER- SO I FEWAK OUT AND MOVE HER, FOR SOEM REASON SHE WAS FINE WITH IT? BUT THENNNNN SHE LEAPS OFF THE COUNTER AND RUNS UNDER A <fuzzy teddy-bear>ING HOLE UNDER THE SINK. UGHHHHHHHHHHHHH
SO I GOT A TRAP FROM MY GRANDPA BUT IT DOESNT WORK BC SHES SO SMALL SO I BASICALLY HAD TO SPEND THE ENTIRE DAY NEXT TO THE TRAP BUT SHE WOULDNT COME OUT UNLESS I LEFT. 
AND THENNNNN I WALK IN AND MY ORIGINAL RAT, OREO, IS GONE FROM HER CAGE! SO AFTER SEARCHING IN TEARS, TURNS OUT SHE WAS IN HER CAGE THE WHOLE TIME. OKAY THEN! AND THEN LITERALLY TWO SECONDS AFTER THAT, I FIND TOYBUS DEAD IN HIS CAGE!
 
AND TO TOP IT ALL OFF, TODAY ON MY <fuzzy teddy-bear>ING BIRTHDAY, MY DAD IS LEAVING US!!!! AND ITS ALL MY FAULT TOO!!!
 
SO IM JUST <fuzzy teddy-bear>ING DONE DUDE IM <fuzzy teddy-bear>ING DONE OH MY GOD




WW, I am so sorry that all of this is going on with you. You are an amazing person who deserves so much more. All of your feelings about this are valid. I know that what I’m saying probably won’t help but I’ll try anyways.. I believe that things will get better for you.
You are strong.
I’m here for you. Even if you just want to talk or vent you can talk to me. <3

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Posted 17 April 2022 - 06:18 AM



WW, I am so sorry that all of this is going on with you. You are an amazing person who deserves so much more. All of your feelings about this are valid. I know that what I’m saying probably won’t help but I’ll try anyways.. I believe that things will get better for you.
You are strong.
I’m here for you. Even if you just want to talk or vent you can talk to me. <3

thank u <3

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Posted 17 April 2022 - 05:32 PM

Whatever is going on between your parents, it's not your fault. It really sucks to be caught between two parents that don't get along. When the time comes, maybe you could talk to your dad about him living close enough to visit and how meaningful it is for you to be able to see him regularly.


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Posted 17 April 2022 - 09:40 PM

Whatever is going on between your parents, it's not your fault. It really sucks to be caught between two parents that don't get along. When the time comes, maybe you could talk to your dad about him living close enough to visit and how meaningful it is for you to be able to see him regularly.

Thank you so much <333

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Posted 18 April 2022 - 06:01 AM

I’m so sorry to hear this WW. You don’t deserve this. I might not help but even when it seems that only darkness is left and the light is gone, you must try to fight through. The light will shine again <3
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Posted 19 April 2022 - 09:35 PM

OKAY SO I START OFF THIS WEEK ABOUT TO GET NEW RATS, YAY FOR THE WORLD

BUT THEN THE SHOP IS CLOSED AND EVERY OTHER SHOP DOESNT HAVE THEM!

SO BOO HOO! 

SO THE NEXT DAY I CONTACT A BREEDER, AND THEN MY MOM DECIDES SHE DOESNT WANT TO BUY THEM FROM THAT SPECIFIC SHOP, AND THE BREEDER DOESNT RESPOND

SO MY ONLY OPTION FOR GETTING MY CURRENT RATS FRIENDS SO SHE ISNT LONELY IS A STUPID PET STORE UGHHHHH

SO I GET THEM FROM THE PET STORE AND I BRING THEM HOME AND YKNOW I LOVE THEM

THE NEXT DAY I RUB SOME VANILLA ON THERE BELLIES SINCE I WAS GONNA INTRODUCE THEM TO MY CURRENT RAT- AND MY OTHER ONE GOES ON A FREAKING HOT BURNER- SO I FEWAK OUT AND MOVE HER, FOR SOEM REASON SHE WAS FINE WITH IT? BUT THENNNNN SHE LEAPS OFF THE COUNTER AND RUNS UNDER A <fuzzy teddy-bear>ING HOLE UNDER THE SINK. UGHHHHHHHHHHHHH

SO I GOT A TRAP FROM MY GRANDPA BUT IT DOESNT WORK BC SHES SO SMALL SO I BASICALLY HAD TO SPEND THE ENTIRE DAY NEXT TO THE TRAP BUT SHE WOULDNT COME OUT UNLESS I LEFT. 

AND THENNNNN I WALK IN AND MY ORIGINAL RAT, OREO, IS GONE FROM HER CAGE! SO AFTER SEARCHING IN TEARS, TURNS OUT SHE WAS IN HER CAGE THE WHOLE TIME. OKAY THEN! AND THEN LITERALLY TWO SECONDS AFTER THAT, I FIND TOYBUS DEAD IN HIS CAGE!

 

AND TO TOP IT ALL OFF, TODAY ON MY <fuzzy teddy-bear>ING BIRTHDAY, MY DAD IS LEAVING US!!!! AND ITS ALL MY FAULT TOO!!!

 

SO IM JUST <fuzzy teddy-bear>ING DONE DUDE IM <fuzzy teddy-bear>ING DONE OH MY GOD

This sounds like you have been put through absolutely, completely heck. 

First of all, I am so sorry about Toybus, he loved you <3

I hope Oreo is okay and you guys can have some time together.

 

Your parents issues are not your fault, and you should never, ever beat yourself up over that.

He will be coming back, but that might not make it any easier on you. 

 

Right now, you should focus on yourself, taking some time away from places that remind you of bad memories can really ease up your mind.

Sleepover with a friend, spend extra time with the rats, go to the movies. Just care for yourself.

 

 

much love and I hope things get easier <333

- kat