Very sad this is my first post on this site. I was hoping for something more positive.
About five days ago a friend of mine asked me if I wanted to adopt a Russian dwarf from her work that they were getting rid of due to insufficient room.
I rushed setting up a new habitat for him (two small-ish cages connected with tubes). The first couple of days seemed to be going well. He was very skittish and seemed reluctant to enter the tubes into his "second room", but I assumed that's normal when suddenly changing environments. I have one other hamster who is my first and I've only had him for three months, so I'm still pretty new to this, but he was also very inactive and fearful the first week or so before suddenly starting to explore and play.
I checked on him every day but most days he wouldn't leave his little house, though I saw evidence that he was eating and moving around the cage when I wasn't looking.
Last night I wanted to try to hand feed him to start getting him accustomed to my scent and at first I thought he just wouldn't come outside like before, but it turns out he wasn't in his house at all. Somehow, one of the tubes got deattached and opened up onto the floor. I panicked, and dug through both cages thoroughly to make sure he wasn't just hiding, but he's definitely gone.
I have no idea how to find him. I'm not sure how long he's been out. Could have been a few hours, could have been as long as two days. I can't remember when I last saw him for certain, beacause I was trying to give him space.
I called my friend who gave him to me, and she said not to worry and to fill up his food, keep his cage open and keep doors and windows to the outside shut. She says he'll probably go back to his familiar habitat when he gets tired of exploring.
This morning he hadn't returned, so I'm freaking out again. I left the cage open still, and as soon as the stores open I'm going out to get one of those non-kill mousetraps that lures them into a box, so I can at least catch him if he's still around.
I don't know what else to do! Can anyone offer any more advice?
I feel awul, I'm a terrible mom.