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[monkeysmom]

Ummmm.....don't get mad or anything but can I give you the flip side of the "skinny" topic?

I know that I have always had a difficult time with the weight issue. I was always so skinny and petite growing up that when I finally put on weight in high school....I went from 75 lbs in the summer of 9th grade to 90 lbs and I thought I was the fattest thing walking around! Sometimes when people are small for so long they don't know how to react once they actually put a little weight on. I know it took me a long time to adjust to the idea....and no I was not just fishing for compliments....I really did have a self-image issue.

Also, when you are really small boned....a little extra weight seems more exagerated...especially without your clothes on. With clothes it seems a little less obvious, so maybe what they are seeing and what someone else is seeing is totally different.

Of course, I haven't been 90 lbs. since the day I got pregnant with MG!

I hope I don't annoy anyone....just giving the other view point!

BTW~ I never judge anyone by their looks....big or small...race, etc. The only important thing is what is in someone's heart! That is what truly counts.

Edited by monkeysmom, 30 July 2004 - 05:13 AM.

[whimsicalhamster]

Well im not trying to say that all people under 90 pounds are stupid or anything. It doesnt really matter how you look. I just hate like ( i know im being steroetype here but) supermodels who have to spend there entire life devoted to being under 70 pounds. Its disgusting and its not nessecary!

But if someones like anoerexic or something.. thats a different matter . Thats a problem that you arnt really " forced" into. Its just something that happens.

Its just " annoying" to see women who have to eat nothing but lettuce for the rest of their lives to sell clothes......

^^ Its my point of view. Dont get mad at me -hides-

[monkeysmom]

LOL...I never thought you meant that Whimiscal...no reason to :hide: Just handing out another viewpoint is all! I actually thought your post was quite amusing and was laughing when I read it.

[Kelly_Bear]

Lets see....top 10... i is least annoying 10 is most
1)bugs
2)When my dad comes in & changes the tv channel when i was watching something
3)people who judge people by looks (especially guys who think a girl has to wear makeup every second of the day )
4)that Jk Rowling is only writing 7 harry potter books! NOOOOO!!
5)my brother's attitude (thinking he's superior just because he's older)
6)Racist people
7)THE CAPS LOCK KEY!!!!!
8)things that smell bad
9)my mom always making food i don't like
10)my sweaty hands & feet (hyperhidrosis is TERRIBLE i'm cursed!)

[cow32323]

My pet peeves

1) my mother in law and oldest sil trying to interfere
2) people interferring when I discipline my kids
3) people asking : do youwork? I say O Im a stay at home mom yes I do work im not a lady of leisure.. they go oh you dont work .Gee what do you mean I dont work I say : I mind the kids get the chores done .. same thing that you pay a maid for .. they shut up

4) judgemental people
5) People telling me off when I pick up my now ten year old and almost 9YO for a hug. I tend ot snap the kid is mine whats your problem they shut up heh heh
6) People who dont understand hormone problems .. dont know about things like body parts and ovaries and inisit my health problems are the r4esult of my diet or get angry when I explain why i cant take chinese herbs .. i mean one man's meat is another man's poison and ot me it is literally poison because of my sensitivity to food
7) worms
8) The fact that there is no cure for cancer or AIDs
9) The fact that my kids are getting to that occasionally mouthy stage
10) That I have no income now becaue years ago I gave up my teaching job yo mind the kids ...

mei

[fei mao]

(7) Men who conclude that we must be having our period when we're cranky.

HAh hAH .. I aGreE wIth U BabyGurl .. ITs TrUE thoUgh ..

HEre's the ToP 10 thINgS THAt i DISlikes !!~

1. boredom
2. girls that actually do "sinful" things in order to earn quick $$
3. anyone who claims that he/she is handicap(when they can actually go and look for a job and does'nt realli look handicap to me) wants us to donate $$
4. BuGs (ANY kIndS)
5. working OT when i actually meet up with a friend and hab to cancel it
6. copycats (e.g when i got this skirt and my friend asks where did u get that and bought the same thing as u)
7. Ignorance
8. Cheaters/liars
9. Prank calls
10. ToOpI Pop-ups

[nana shansky]

here's my list:

10: people who are self concious..... thats how they look, live with it

9: boredom


8:Lying trying to be cool. If you haven't seen the movie or saw the show then don't make it up and make a fool of yourself

7: whiners. its not the world's fault that you cant do it or didnt. deal with it and stop crying

6: People who just can't deal with their prob. alone and have to tell the whole world about it. WE DON"T CARE!!!!!!!!!

5: Trying to act cool. if you try to hard it makes you look so much worse

4: Birds. I absolutely hate them (sry to all the bird lovers)

3:Talking behind people's back. If you have something to say then tell it to the person it concerns to keep your mouth shut

2: Talking about my family or me for that matter. Say it to us or just keep it to yourself

1: Whining to me about something that i did and you didnt. This one usually brings me to tears. I hate it when people (one person really) come up to me and tell me "its not fair that you got to do so and so and i didnt. everyone likes you but not me. and what you did, that was so bad" and then they just keep talking and eventually give you the silent treatment. its their fault that they didnt get to do it so leave me the heck (you know what i mean) alone.

this is good stress relief!!!!

[fei mao]

3:Talking behind people's back. If you have something to say then tell it to the person it concerns to keep your mouth shut

Ya !!~ I AgREe wIth THiS toO !!~ SoOO upsetting !~ tHere was once my best frend who talks bad bout mi behind my back . mani friends came to tell mi .. although i noe bout it i did'nt say her or anything .. coZ its juz bout a small matter .. i juz dun wanna ruin a friendship coZ of small sesame things .. ke ke ke .. ^^


-fei mao-

[whitedoggy]

1- no one tend to bother about answering the phone
2- my 2 brothers
3- my hamster squeaking
4- those irritating friends who think they are such a big deal
5- rude people
6- rap
7- crown
8- dirty minded people
9- cat *no offence*
10- school work

[ozzy]

right here goes.....
10# my uncle sooooooooo annoying always cracking jokes about me!!!
9#wasps!!
8#people who think there all cool and there NOT!!!
7#people who do naughty things and blame on you and all you're doing is sitting there!
6#people who get angry to easy.
5#my family who always embarase me!!
4#people who ring you up and don't speak to you!(what's the point!)
3#girls(no offense) who thing there so pretty and the need to loose loads of weight just to look good!
2#maths!!ugggghhhhh
1#BUSTED!!!!(boy band)

[Aunt Mavis]

1.)i have to go back to school in 47 days
2.) BOYS(only some)
3.) My old reading teacher
4.)not being able to go on the computor
5.) Not being able to be able to play sims because my computor is messed UP!!!
6.) lying
7.) talk shows
8.) going swimming i hate pools( every1 thinks i'm a cat)
9.)Rap
10.)CLOWNS!!!!

[Dwarf_Runner]

Hmmm My list is.........

1) Immature boys -ew your ugly i dont like you etc.
2) PpL Hoo TLk LYkE Diz ~**~~ no offense, but i get like soo annoyed, i mean, it takes a long time to write like that. type english, its faster meh
3) People who think they know EVERY SINGLE LIVING FACT AND DETAILS about hamsters -cough whimsical- haha :P Dont worry I know her in real life and she can get annoying to talk to when she talks about hamsters so im not judging by a few posts :P

4) UHmmmmm people who go to sleep at like 6am, yea ....but thats me so im a hypocrite. mwahwha

5) People who sell their bodies .... I mean....its just so fandom . blah

6) People with like less than 3 words to say when posting like

"hah. funny"
i like DETAILED posts, like Monkeysmoms posts usually are ;) very informative

7) When my computer gets all frozen and stuff :(

8) when I nick myself while shaving :-p owwwww!

9) When whimsical - er melissa- steals my bike while im trying to go home, or runs off with it...MELSISA o.O

10) When there is nothing on T.V rotfl . whew my list is boringggggg!

Edited by Dwarf_Runner, 03 August 2004 - 01:48 AM.

[Charmer]

(4) People who repeat what you say and claim it as their own

I hate that one as well.


1: Bad spelling(lol)
2: Jerks
3: Mispronounced words(lol)
4: My brother
5: Sexist stuff you see everywhere.
6: Complainers
7: Brats
8: People who think they know-it-all.
9: People who take everything for granted
10: My mean cousin, who bullies me because my brother does it.

[fuzzball]

10:country music
9:rap
8:rats
7:ppl who judge u buy how u live
6:my cat when he tries to kill me but i still love my little tiggs
5:my family teasing me that i have a boyfriend and i dont
4:ppl tease me about my glasses
3:boys who try to impress me when i like them for who they r if there nice
2:BOYS well alot of boys i know r nice tho
drum roll pls
1:when ppl say bad things about u or cuss i hate that soo bad plus i live in a christian family

[Wiffyluvr5000]

10: Bijou when she's scrating me (bijou my friend's pet rat)
9: disturbing music (the song naughty girl)
8: disturbing comertioals on TV and the radio
7: Bordem
6: Oxy clean commercials
5: wavy & droopy fish
4: when the computer does not have flash
3: my brother's singing
2: my brother's acting
1: MY BROTHER!!!!

lol