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[fuzzball]

Bleh.... I usually don't fall over guys because of looks. I'm more interested in personalities. lol, is this normal?

Hmmm... I've got a crush, but I'm too afraid to do anything about it. No time for boys yet. Knowing myself, I would probably freak out if something went by the slightest bit fast.

Any advice on this? The freaking out part, I mean.


HamHam: It sounds like she may like you. When I was 9 I liked this guy, and expressed in a common yet strange way... I teased him all the time. We sat next to eachother and I was more than likely a pest. So this girl is teasing you? She probably does like you. I don't know any girls that make fun of guys for no other reason. ;)

Yea same here Charmer I go for personalitly too.That is what makes the guy great!BTW I think 2 guys like me!One I definetly know he does.I don't like him though.

[valerioluvr71]

lol!! those are just like me and my boyfriend were loliesz.
thatz wikid!!! thx foxxyy

[Beagle_Lover]

Bleh.... I usually don't fall over guys because of looks. I'm more interested in personalities. lol, is this normal?

Same here. the guy can be cute, vut if he is a jerk, I don't want to go out with him at all!

[Emmaluvspippen]

HahA!! Thanx Foxxyy! He Asked me out! And we kissed YEY Lol (just yesteray and im not saying what kind of kiss) Thank you lots foxxy! He asked my out 3 days after i posted last on this post! LOL

[50,000_tears]

al i did is become friends w/ him and so we knew eachother then i can tell last night work out great from this ;)

[Beagle_Lover]

LOL YAY for you, emma!

lol, I have a lot of guy friends right now... and some of theese signs happen with all of them.. uh-oh, you think they all like me? LOL, I need a boyfriend.....

[Cheeky]

I know what kind of kiss, eh Emma?

[viccstar10]

WOW! Good tips! I can use those..... in the future!

[nana shansky]

lol, I have a lot of guy friends right now... and some of theese signs happen with all of them.. uh-oh, you think they all like me? LOL, I need a boyfriend.....

OMG Beagle! *high fives* That was like that same thing, and still is. I am more interested in guy friends cause sometimes girls are a bit different from me. They like me and i like them. Then all of a sudden, like 8 guys liked me! Every flippen day some1 told me they liked me. I hear this happens to all the girls who are friends wit guys, they just wont tell u they like u. So Beagle dont worry, you'll find the perfect guy really soon...it's fate!

Good luck!

Edited by nana shansky, 06 March 2005 - 11:34 AM.

[peanut_my_hammy]

This was a great post! I busted my crush, he aint sneaky anymore!

[50,000_tears]

my crush embaressed me..i thought his name was Zach BUZZ WRONG...its acctually spelt Zack(oh god after the betta named "zack the one week wonder" i am leery about that name)

[berrylux]

Lol, Berrylux! When I teased him, I was just annoying. Not mean, but just annoying. What makes us think we are getting closer to them that way? At leats our existance is confirmed, but how is it registered?

Charmer- I think teasing them, gets us closer to them like friends. :P Yesterday, a boy gave me a drawing of a japanesse character, and in small prints on the bottom "you have this cute stare, I don't know what it is about, but It's cute", he kept staring at me sometimes, But I don't like him....Darn it.
I've always had a small crush on my guy friend Jordan (We've known each other for 9 years, I hated him in grade school )
It's weird because I'm not jealous when he talks about other girls, we make sarastic remarks at each other, agrue....I admit he cheesees me off sometimes, he's sweet whenever he feels like it. Why does it have to be soo frustating with boys?

Edited by berrylux, 13 March 2005 - 12:00 AM.

[monkeysmom]

Why does it have to be soo frustating with boys?

ROTFL....don't think for a moment that it ends with boys....men can be just as frustrating, but then again, I am sure they feel the same way about us!

[50,000_tears]

well mine boyfriend ,:doesnt know what a flip phone is. doesnt understand a tv and doesnt go to the mall much so he never knows what i am talkin about

[foxxyy]

Updating!

Here are some more signs and hints that can be useful to you and your crush.

1. He’s always trying to make you laugh. “You know how girls are all, ‘I look for a sense of humor in a guy’?” asks Will. “We’re way ahead of you. If a guy makes an <bottom> of himself, teases you or jokes around, that’s a great sign. Nothing feels better than seeing the girl you like crack up.” Aw, shucks.
2. He’s nice to your friends. (But not too nice.) “Basically, you want her girls to tell her that you’re sooo sweet/cool/ nice/funny/smart,” says my ex Charlie, whom, incidentally, my friends adored. “If they’re on your side, you’re halfway there.”
3. He gives you a little present. “Of course a mix CD is money,” says my heartbreaker friend Rick, who has serious game. “It doesn’t matter if we scrawl a cartoon on a napkin or buy you flowers-we just want you to think of us. That’s why we’re forever letting you borrow our jackets.” Charlie, who once gave me a Velvet Underground pin because I mentioned I fall asleep to Loaded every night, agrees: “I like to get her something small that picks up on a conversation we had, so she knows I really listen.”
4. He offers weird compliments. I realized this one guy was sweet on me when he stammered, “The moles on your sternum look like a constellation of stars.” Um, thanks. Point being, he was paying a suspicious amount of attention to detail—a dead giveaway, considering he’s of the male species.
5. He’s in touch. Once he has your number, my boys all agree, he’ll call you within a week if he’s game. “Waiting a few days is par for the course,” says Charlie. “But never more than a week if you really dig her.” Nothing beats a phone call, but other acceptable forms of communication are (in this order): notes on car or locker, e-mails, IMs, text messages and any MySpace-esque activities. P.S. If he doesn’t call the day after you hook up, “he’s bad news,” insists Frank. “Move on.”
6. He lingers on phone calls. “Guys absolutely hate talking on the phone—we’re terrible at it,” insists Rick, an otherwise eloquent musician. “So when I find myself mumbling <lousy> like ‘Um, what did you eat today?’ just to stay on the line, I know I must be in love or something.”
7. He introduces you to the guys. “When a guy takes you along to meet his friends, that’s major. You know they’re gonna tease him later—he’s got to think you’re pretty cool,” says Charlie. “It shows he’s comfortable around you.

[courtesy of ellegirl ]

Clues & Hints to find out if he likes you

A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.

Shy Guys

These are tough to crack sometimes...

-He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
-You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
-He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
-(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
-He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...
-He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
-He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
-You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
-He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
-He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
-Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
-DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)

[courtesy of links2love ]

foxx

Edited by foxxyy, 16 March 2005 - 05:05 AM.