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[♥~kitkat7♥]

I too need to get some stuff out..

 

So my social anxiety is now sky high at school and it just is interfering with my everyday life in so many ways.

My body aches a lot and I get stomach aches, cramps, head aches, dizzy spells, and terrible nausea A LOT. Sometimes it hurts so much to walk and I walk really slowly, but my friends pass it off as "short person issues". I also have had 0 appetite lately, but binging a lot on whatever. Like, I want to eat, but I have no appetite. And I will be super hungry, but as soon as I reach the fridge, my appetite is gone.

 

I also get this really weird thing, it didn't happen often a while ago, but now it happens very often. It's where I feel like I am in a dream. I am almost on auto-pilot and I get dizzy and its hard to breathe. I feel like I am about to float away, and I have no weight. It is hard to explain, without it happening. It happens most often while I am zoned out. I call them "dream episodes". They last from 5 seconds, to 5 minutes. It really depends. Does anyone know what it is or anyone get them too?

[Hamustars]

I too need to get some stuff out..

 

So my social anxiety is now sky high at school and it just is interfering with my everyday life in so many ways.

My body aches a lot and I get stomach aches, cramps, head aches, dizzy spells, and terrible nausea A LOT. Sometimes it hurts so much to walk and I walk really slowly, but my friends pass it off as "short person issues". I also have had 0 appetite lately, but binging a lot on whatever. Like, I want to eat, but I have no appetite. And I will be super hungry, but as soon as I reach the fridge, my appetite is gone.

 

I also get this really weird thing, it didn't happen often a while ago, but now it happens very often. It's where I feel like I am in a dream. I am almost on auto-pilot and I get dizzy and its hard to breathe. I feel like I am about to float away, and I have no weight. It is hard to explain, without it happening. It happens most often while I am zoned out. I call them "dream episodes". They last from 5 seconds, to 5 minutes. It really depends. Does anyone know what it is or anyone get them too?

yikes... that's all i can say, yikes....

[snowham12345]

Eh. Hey..



Idk if this is a good spot to ask this.. but idk



So I’ve been texting this guy, right? He’s in my homeroom class and I’ve known him for years.
I found out on Tuesday or something that he likes me. (He told my friend, who then told me)
Uh so yeah
But like I am so bad at creating conversation.. I can’t think of anything to talk to him about. We’ve talked about hobbies and sports and pets but that was all what he asked me..
I’ve just asked about hockey and what fun things he has going on..
What can I say?
He’s being so sweet and giving me the nicest compliments (like seriously, most guys just compliment girls looks- he compliments how I think)
I just can’t figure out what to say..

Now continued.. I’m definitely attracted to his personality but not really his looks.. now the personality way overrides looks and stuff but idk. It’s just a different type of attraction that isn’t really what I've experienced before.

Then there’s the problem.. I uh liked a different guy for about a year before this dude.. I’m not sure if all feelings are gone.. now the worst part is the old crush is a friend of the dude I’m talking to.. it’s weird and I dunno what’s going on


Then there’s the fact that I’m going to a school in the city next year (we live in a town beside the city)- Not sure if this will create a problem or not..

Now I know I’m taking this very seriously, considering we’re just talking but I dunno I just have no experience with anything like this..

Since I’ve never really texted a dude my age who is into girls- specifically someone interested in me.. I literally haven’t even had my first kiss.. (which around here most people of age 13 have.. I’m 15..)


Not to mention my social skills SUCK- I can’t even accept a compliment..

Any good ideas to create meaningful and interesting conversation without overstepping?